N d Loop continuesss......

Sum ppl hav sum spl attraction towards certain problems.Hence,they fall prey to the same problem again and again and again..............
I am one of those.

A problem magnet,as it is i am.i.e if there exists a problem within a range of 1km or even 2.............the probability of it striking me is maximum.In fact the problem is so much customized for me,that it seems to me that it was invented to strike me. Or if I may put it this way,I attract the problem desperately........
After all,whats Life without Problems,nay??

Unlike other bad lucks and diseases,the same problem will strike me again and again and again............Sumthing opposite to the Lightning striking theory which says, Lightning duznt hit the same place twice.In my case,it duz!!

Off all the ppl,runnin on  stairs,the probability of me slipping or tripping or in any way falling is maximum.And when I am running thru the same stairs n even after me being careful,The probability of me falling on those stairs is again maximum.It works like the law of attraction.sumwhat............(Dont expect me to state the law)

So if I have lost my wallet once,i'll be careful next tym,Nd i'll lose my wallet twice.
I'll be a bit more careful,Nd i'll lose my wallet the 3rd tym.......

I think i'll stop carrying a wallet...........

The G- G A P. . .

Of course i m talking about the Generation gap.

The narrow ridge between parents and children is widening day by day.Parents keep a follow up with their children till their teenage....but once they cross their sweet sixteens,they just grow out of control.Whose fault is that? Are parents not able to give their children enuf tym?? Or do kids offlate demand more space.........

And talking of space,how much space is feasible in a parent-child relationship???

I believe,its more about understanding each other,than the matter of space.Kids obviously need to develop more understanding towards their parents.But kids are kids. And more importantly parents need to understand their kids.Their needs,their problems,their point of view.

I suppose there should be more interaction between parents and children and parents should be less judgmental.If the child demands sumthin, try understanding his point of view and necessity rather than clean denial. That myt lead to giving rise to children criminals.............lol

Anyhow,by the age of 20,an individual is in a state of developing himself.These are very crucial times. Why don't sum parents understand that they are not their 5-year olds anymore.Scolding them or suppressing them will seriously not help.

What i see all around are kids doing stuff outside the knowledge of their parents.Kids will do what they have to.If u suppress them,they will do it secretly,without their parents' knowledge,but they will.The only way to stop them taking the wrong path is by talking to them,in their language,explaining them,in their terms.

Parents need to understand and adapt that having a gal/boyfrend is normal and so is having a break-up.Tyms are changing and the only way to go hand in hand with the generation is change with it.......

The BEST Ride!!

I m running late. There's heavy traffic.I run around  vehicles,tryna cross roads,reach the bus stop.In the era of inflation I avoid the thought of travelling in a rick.I reach the bus stop.The sun shines bright over my head making me sweat......sigh.

I see a fleet of buses coming my way.Its not the bus i wana board.I step back.The bus approaches me in an attacking manner as if demanding its own space like a lion roaring at me,pouncing its claws on me.I step farther back.People rush into the bus.The bus loudly pulls away.

I see another bus coming in.Its the bus i hav to board.But it duznt seem like the driver wants to take the effort of hitting the brakes to let me in.He enjoys driving the bus empty(well,almost)!
I threaten him with my false suicide attempt standing right in front of the red suicide machine.Hurray! He hits the break.*sigh* My life is saved. I run and get into it.

I go past the fat conductor who is sittin in the backseat counting dirty bills given to him by passengers. He is so occupied with his job,he doesn't even notice me.
I search for a 10 rupee note.The fare is 6 bucks.I expect him to have 4bucks change. He expects me to have 6bucks change.Oh! Humans and their expectations.Expectations always hurt.....

I call out to him once,twice,thrice.I am losing it.I yell over the roar of the bus.He spares me a lazy glance through his thick glasses and again resumes his counting business.My destination is approaching.I have to go.
He finally takes pain to get up.Lazily,walking like a hulk,he approaches me,throws a dirty look in my direction.I ignore.

I hand him the 10 rupee note.He asks for a 1 rupee coin.I search inside my bag.I find a 2 rupee coin.I hand it over to him.He examines it carefully.Learns its a 2rupee coin.Hands it back to me.Give me another of his dirty   looks.I ignore.He mutters sumthing under his breath.I ignore.Puts his hand into his bag full of coins.Brings out 2 2rupee coins. Throws them into my hand like he did a big favour giving me the ticket and I didn't deserve any bit of it and neither the change.I ignore.

I see my destination nearing.I walk to the gate.The driver glances at me.Grumbles a bit.With too much effort,hits the breaks almost throwing me out of the bus.I balance myself and get out of the bus.Thanking God for the brilliant BEST ride I just had!!

Being Woman!

Women-such an important and integral part of the society. Over centuries men have loved women,lusted them,protected them,fought over them,fought with them,abused them and molested them.

 In India women have been subject to unspeakable atrocities and injustice. Women-always considered the weaker sex,have evolved as nothing but slaves or rather entertainers to men. Men put women to slavery,prostitution and such unspeakable tortures.

Women-no matter what,were barred from education,luxury and by far an independent and just life.Widows had no place in the society.They were supposed to be killed the moment her husband died.Till centuries,der came the very prevalent female genocide.Women or rather girls were killed the moment they were born for the mere crime  of being born with the 'Y' gene.

Women going through menstruation,were considered like a curse.Where on all times,women were considered "Lakshmi" become some dark shadow while going thru periods.Not allowed to enter the kitchen,temple,or touch anything in her own house.Whats her fault??

Today,where we stand face to face with our future,the past still happens to claw on our backs. On one hand where women are pledging as prime-ministers,there are women who are still being beaten by their husbands,being burned down for dowry,getting raped,being sold,and in many cases being killed.

What has changed over years for women? I say nothing.There are places where still a woman cannot walk alone without being eve-teased or called out.Women-are a great object of desire that unfortunately leads them to brutal violence and crimes.

All these crimes against women,and we are still silent.All women are still interested in is buying jewellery and expensive saris??? Raise your voice women. You have been suppressed all these years only because you never revolted.It was due to this submissive behavior of women at those times that the entire womanhood suffers today.

Remember,if a woman can give birth to a man,she can do anything and everything a man can do.You were and are in no way less than a man.Women dont need men,Men need women.Think over it.

And as for all the men reading this,tell me what do you think women are to you??   

BFF turned BF ! ;)

Was reading a blog by a friend n juz got inspired......
So here i am.

Well,2 ppl of opposite sexes cannot remain friends.This is what the world says. I,personally believe that a guy n a gal can make great friends,in fact,best friends!! Most of my own frenz are guys. N my best frend is a guy as well. But sumhow sumwhr wen ppl are very close,they might experience sum kinda sexual tension,but not always ha. Sexual tension may arise only if feelings are dat strong. But chuck dat yaar,i dnt wana b givin u guys gyaan on a topic dats not my PHD. lolzz

Anyhow,best frenz often make good couples,no great couples. Many a tyms it happens dat 1 of them falls for another and duznt confess the feeling fearing dat u myt end up losing the frenship. But guys, wen ur in love,the world can tell. N besides,ders no point hiding the feeling.Cuz love,like any otha feeling,is 2b felt n not feared n suppressed. The more u try to suppress,the more it reveals itself.
N if he/she is dat good a frend,he/she will understand u.

Anyhow,dats wat happened in ma case.V wer d best of buddies........... N of course,every1 else thot v wer in love.V myt hav been,but v wer 2 busy goin crazy.V luvd each othaz company n wer totally compatible types. But d good old "i-think-he-is-in-love-wid-me" wala feeling dawnd upon me.......aaaaahhh.
Never mind.It eventually turnd out dat i accidentally happened to confess my love to him......
N he confessed back.(well,that was a lot of effort.lol)

So,the bottom-line is best frenz make very good couples.Dnt worry,ur best frend knows u better dan u.
N u can b the best of frenz eve after confessing ur love to him/her.

Trust me,its d best thing to happen:Fall in love wid ur BFF!!

(P.S : Hope u guys know,BFF is Best Frends Forever!!)

Not that PINK!

In contradiction to the good old theory "PINK is for girls BLUE is for Boys" i wud love to declare that "I m a GIRL n I hate PINK!"

Supposedly gals wer born wid a pink spoon in their ink mouths,Or is it dat gals cannot think beyond Pink.
For gals,its like there cud b no better color than PINK nd if they cud,they wud have painted the world PINK! SOS!!!

Okay,lemme give u an example of how a perfect PINK day of a PINK colord ga starts:
She wakes up by the call of her PINK alarm and rises from her Pink bed.She pulls off her pink covers n steps into her pink slippers n walks across her pink room to her pink-framed mirror.Thankfully,her face is not Pink (yet)!  She goes to her pink bathroom and probably has a bath with her pink beauty soap (that will make her beautifully pink!) and cum wrapped in her pink towel.
She'll go to her pink wardrobe n think for a long time which pink dress to wear.After dressing up in Pink,she'll again take a long tym to comb her hair wid a pink comb n decorate them with pink accessories n put on a matching pink nail paint on her perfectly manicured nails.........
Anyhow,after a lot of pinking,she'll again pick up her pink fone n put it in a pink handbag n ride off on her pink scooty to her college! There,she'll meet her friends who'd b dressed in similar shades of pink n they'll exchange Pink pinch( Oh sorry! Same pinch). They might even compliment each other on their cute choice of pink dresses n matching accessories........
After gettin dun wid college,she'll check time in her pink watch and look for sum green notes in her pink wallet! Oh!a different color,after so long.jokes apart.If her wallet agrees,she might go shopping for more pink clothes,shoes etc
Well,dats quite a pukish PINK day!!

On that note, I am happy to not fall in the PINK line..........n HATE PINK!!