How much space is permissible in a relationship???
Any relationship-be it d one between u n ur parents,u n ur boy/galfrend......watever.....needs space.Or shud i say ppl need space.Every one has their own privacy level.N ppl around us need to understand dat.Specially, ppl close to us,or ppl in a relation wid us importantly need to respect our space.
Space is an integral part of any relationship.An appropriate amount of space works well.However,if given too much or too less space,it can ruin the relationship.So here we come back to the same old question,how much space is permissible??Or rather how much space does one need??
I mean is it really necessary for parents to scold their 20 year old kid to study 4 her xamz.I mean,duznt she know dat herself? She'll do it on her own right? Duzn't she require sum space.
I dunno y but in India,ppl dnt giv space.Say it parents,spouses,friends,any relation.........ders no space!
N den later,dey break up,run away from houses n do such crazy things. Relations are like a spring.The more u press them,the more they'll expand...........It is always better to handle them gently.Else they might jump out of control.
One thing thats important in a relationship is Trust.When u trust sum1,u can always give them sum space.But space shud also b taken care of.Misuse of given space can lead to damage of trust!
On that note,
"Occupy only the space given to you,
If u try to occupy more,more the chances of being thrown out!!!"
Space is an integral part of any relationship.An appropriate amount of space works well.However,if given too much or too less space,it can ruin the relationship.So here we come back to the same old question,how much space is permissible??Or rather how much space does one need??
I mean is it really necessary for parents to scold their 20 year old kid to study 4 her xamz.I mean,duznt she know dat herself? She'll do it on her own right? Duzn't she require sum space.
I dunno y but in India,ppl dnt giv space.Say it parents,spouses,friends,any relation.........ders no space!
N den later,dey break up,run away from houses n do such crazy things. Relations are like a spring.The more u press them,the more they'll expand...........It is always better to handle them gently.Else they might jump out of control.
One thing thats important in a relationship is Trust.When u trust sum1,u can always give them sum space.But space shud also b taken care of.Misuse of given space can lead to damage of trust!
On that note,
"Occupy only the space given to you,
If u try to occupy more,more the chances of being thrown out!!!"
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